Half Your Life

It is truly hard to believe that as of today, you have been gone exactly half as long as you were on this earth. I do not know how it is even possible and I really do not know how it's possible I've been able to survive elevn years without you. When I consider the fact that I could possibly live another eleven years without you which will mean that you will have been gone from this earth as long as you lived, it terrifies me and breaks my heart even more. That would make me sixty six years old. I don't want to be here for the day that you have been gone as long as you lived on this earth. Of course I would never cause anything to make that reality, but my heart doesn't want that. Sad truth, with our family history there is a good chance a lot of my memory will be compromised, but one thing I know for sure is I will NEVER be able to forget that you are no longer here and that you are the largest void in my heart and life. Granny, BoBo, nor did Grandmother Croft never forgot you with that dreaded disease, so there is absolutely I will never forget either. That just means Tebo's life will likely only get worse for him when it comes to me and my grief of missing you and I hate that for him. He will be 72 by then since he will have just had his birthday and he deserves better than that, but I also know he is strong enough to handle it. I just hate it for him. Chad, you were truly the best thing I've ever done and although I thought I knew heartbreak when we lost Jessica, I had no idea the pain your aunt "Paigey" went through. Sadly, now I do. My heart feels like what I would imagine what a mirror or glass would feel like when it shatters, but the odd and problem with the heart is it shatters every moment that I am breathing. I know that sounds dramatic and you know I am far from dramatic, but that is truly the best way to express how it truly feels. The only thing that gives me hope is that one day I do know that there will come a day that we will be reunited again, but trust me, that day cannot come fast enough. I can't say that to many people, well, really only one person who can understand without worrying about me actually doing something about it, but I would be lying if I didn't say I don't long for the day when the good Lord decides it is time for me to reunite with you. I need to hug you like only a momma bear can do and kiss that forehead of yours and just smell you and see that crooked littlel grin and hear your quick witt and hear all your new stories and hear all the shenanigans you and Jessica and BoBo have gotten into while Granny is over there watching and laughing and probably saying "Larry"... LOL! Just promise me you will be waiting at the gates for me with a huge hug when I get there, because trust me, I will need it and I am sure I will be crying, but it will be all happy tears and I will need lots of one on one time with you to catch you up on all the wonderful things going on down here, especially with Cohen and Jorden and Peanut. I would say Scooter too, but he could sure use you and BoBo right now, but he will grow out of it (soon I hope), but he is being his mom at his age right now (Eeeekkk). I knwo he will get through it, but your influence sure would be nice. I love you son and just taking flowers to the cemetery seem so little and meaningless, it's really all I have. Tebo and I did sponsor eleven Wreaths for Wreaths Across America this year in memory of you for the eleventh anniversary, but again, just doesn't seem enough. I guess my tears and reflection of you will just have to do since that's really all I can do, but I pray you know that a moment I am breathing on this earth is a moment that you are missed and loved. I love you son! Love, momma bear.